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Breakup diary: holiday uncommitment

Sarah Horth — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 07:39:00 +0000

T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill. 1 month until we breakup and things are turning to custard...

5/20 Why does it always have to be so difficult with T? Bloody bastard – this totally pisses me off. How selfish is he? How much time does he want to spend with me? None at all obviously. It upsets me. Why? I think he doesn’t love me? He made a commitment and broke it? He wants to go to a druggy party with his friends and not a tropical holiday with me, and it hurts. It makes me sad. God we can’t even have a holiday without fighting. Why is he so selfish?

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Breakup Diary: Out for a Fight

Sarah Horth — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 08:17:00 +0000

T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill. 2 months until we breakup...

4/25 I really tried not to bite last night. I felt myself riling up for a fight – now I really see T as incredibly argumentative when he is tired. He was out for a fight. And he really does push and I know I usually respond the way he wants.

I wonder why he gets so aggressive – not really my issue though. I can never know what is going on in his head! A lot though, I guess. I’m learning to not react – and it sure is better than screaming and hating him. We’ll see if I can keep it up/

Looks like sleeping separately is the only way I can sleep at the moment – we keep on ending up in separate rooms.

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Crazy Woman: Carrie and the Post-it Breakup Rant

Sarah Creagh Horth — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 08:08:00 +0000

Here is the classic scene from Sex and the City when Carrie rants at Berger’s friends about his breaking up with her using a post-it note! I guess the post-it was like breaking up by text these days. I’ve been hearing too many stories where guys breakup by text – not good breakup etiquette at all! No wonder she is ranting.

Have you managed to sound this crazy in your breakup? When I broke up with that cheating rat bastard Brian I screamed at him ‘You’ve broken us!!!’ as he cowered in the corner. I’ve never made someone cower before! I must have been a crazzzzzy woman.

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Breakup Diary: Bored Of It All

Sarah Creagh Horth — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 08:02:00 +0000

T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill. Under 3 months until we breakup...

4/5 I am so tired, because of that bastard T. Anyway I don’t want to write about it – I am bored of it all. I don’t even really feel like writing at all. I’m depressed. He’s so fucking selfish. But nothing new there.

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Breakup Diary: So Angry

Sarah Creagh Horth — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:49:00 +0000

Read about the background to my Diary of a Breakup. T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill. 5 months until we breakup...

1/20 I am soooooo angry. It’s 9am and T is still not home from clubbing. He said that he would be home early…it’s our last weekend together before he is away for 3 weeks and he can’t even be bothered to come home or call. I wanted to go out but I’ve fucked my knee, stuck at home. He’s so fucking greedy, gotta have things his way all the time. Well that’s not the way it works. He’ll come home with no energy, today was meant to be my day…great – I get someone who wakes up at 8pm just as I start thinking I’ve gotta wind down for work tomorrow. And then he will be gone, away for 3 weeks. Why am I with such an an asshole?

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Breakup Diary: Anger

Sarah Creagh Horth — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 13:47:00 +0000

Read about the background to my Breakup Diary. T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill. Seven months until we breakup…

11/20 I’m going to talk about anger today.

God damn it – T surpasses himself in selfishness. I came down here to have a lovely holiday and where the fuck am I? At a competitors of T’s company. And how long have I been here? Over an hour. I am going to scream! What does he think? I came all the way down here to see tools? He didn’t even tell me, the bastard and I am here freezing my butt off waiting.

Later: What’s the use? He didn’t even listen to me. I give up. I have learned to ask him and I did but he conveniently left the tool factory out. I am so angry. FUCK.

Went to a beautiful art deco glass museum. I covet a beautiful glass topped table. Of course I went by myself. By this time I was incredibly angry as T had ‘just popped into a customer’s shop for 5 minutes’ – yeah right, more like 45 minutes. What’s the use I ask you? What would you do? How did I end up with someone so selfish?

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