J.K. Rowling is someone I admire.  What an amazing mind to have written those books – Harry Potter is a wonderful world to lose yourself in.  A friend recommended this video where she talks about two things: The Fringe Benefits of Failure, and the Importance of Imagination. No matter what stage you are at in your breakup journey, this video will give you some perspective.  It is 20 minutes long but well worth listening to if you have time.

J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement from Harvard Magazine on Vimeo.

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Haven’t we all the big fight with the boyfriend.  This is the famous Aiden-Carrie fight scene: ‘Your shit is lying around.’  So if you are going through a breakup now – check it out and feel good that you don’t have to go through this anymore!  There are benefits to ending a relationship.

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Nothing like a good Sex and the City breakup to make us cheer!  Yay Samantha shows us how to breakup with a boyfriend – kicking that cheating Richard in the ass!!!  Ah if only we could be that cool at our final meeting.  I wish I’d been able to keep my cool like that when I found out my ex was cheating, instead I screamed at him like a madwoman when I broke up with him.

So what do we learn about breaking up from this video:

• Keep cool
• Know exactly what we are going to say
• I’m not sure that I would do it in a public place but I guess that forces her to keep her cool
• Dump his cheating ass!

Are you worried your partner is cheating on you?  Find out the signs, and download a free chapter from my eBook – Infidelity: Catch Them Cheating… And Survive.

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Here is the classic scene from Sex and the City when Carrie rants at Berger’s friends about his breaking up with her using a post-it note!  I guess the post-it was like breaking up by text these days. I’ve been hearing too many stories where guys breakup by text – not good breakup etiquette at all!  No wonder she is ranting.

Have you managed to sound this crazy in your breakup?  When I broke up with that cheating rat bastard Brian I screamed at him ‘You’ve broken us!!!’ as he cowered in the corner.  I’ve never made someone cower before!  I must have been a crazzzzzy woman.

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Here is a cute video about the obsession we feel after we stop seeing our ex.  How we try to not think about our ex…

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This is a great video about what can happen when you send that breakup email – when you haven’t talked.  Very funny, and will make you think twice about sending abusive emails when breaking up as they might just end up online.

If you need extra support getting over that ex of yours, check out The Smart Woman’s Breakup Program – it’s based on over 100 interviews with women facing breakups just like you and includes the advice of over 25 experts.  You can download a sample chapter here.

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