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		<title>Breakup Diary: I Want to be Free to be Me</title>
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T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill.  2 months until we breakup...
4/12 I want to change &#8211; no that&#8217;s a lie &#8211; I don&#8217;t want to change, I want to be me.  Be free to be me.  I wonder whether I can stay, whether it will [...]


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<p>T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill.  <strong><em>2 months until we breakup..</em>.</strong></p>
<p>4/12 I want to change &#8211; no that&#8217;s a lie &#8211; I don&#8217;t want to change, I want to be me.  Be free to be me.  I wonder whether I can stay, whether it will work out and I realize what <strong>a waste of time this is.</strong> When I see him smile and I feel miserable, I realize he is taking from me.  He&#8217;s selfish.  He will just always do as he wants &#8211; he doesn&#8217;t care.</p>
<p><span style="color: #888888;"><strong>If you want to be free to be you &#8211; free of your breakup, free of your ex, check out the 7-step <a href="http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/10/get-over-your-ex-faster-with-the-help-of-over-100-women-and-25-experts.html">Smart Woman&#8217;s Breakup</a> &#8211; based on interviews with over 100 facing breakups just like you, and the advice of 25 experts.</strong></span></p>
<p><strong>Read about the background to my <a href="http://thebreakupbitch.com/2009/06/breakup-diary.html">Diary of a Breakup,</a> or read all my <a href="http://thebreakupbitch.com/category/inspiration/breakup-diary">breakup diary entries.</a><br />
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