Comments on: Stalker Confession: Checking His Online Profile

By: Kelly

Kelly — Tue, 25 May 2010 12:25:00 +0000

It was easy enough deleting him from Facebook and my phone etc…but this still doesn’t help as he told me his one same password for everything. Now and again, even though I really don’t want to know and know that I’m better off *not* knowing, I get the very strong urge to check if for messages and activities because I’m still so curious and hurt. I’ve tried changing the password etc, but he always changes it back to the same one! No idea how to get out of this one (without fessing up to my stalkerishness of course).

By: Sarah

Sarah — Wed, 19 May 2010 22:16:41 +0000

They are great! I must have been 18 when that movie came out – it really made an impression!

By: Charlotte

Charlotte — Wed, 19 May 2010 15:36:33 +0000

P.S. I’m loving the pictures to your articles LOL!!

By: Charlotte

Charlotte — Wed, 19 May 2010 15:34:47 +0000

I have totally been there myself. Of course it’s not an enviable position to be in, or even a side of ourselves we like to see exposed, but sometimes in the throes of passion (jealousy/rage) we find ourselves behaving in a way that is uncharacteristic. But you’re absolutely right: it’s good to acknowledge that this behavior is destructive and that it won’t lead to any good in the long run.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Sun, 16 May 2010 00:56:58 +0000

Colleen – I’ve got to agree with you! I think it is hard to break all contact with someone online – so easy just to google and see what they are up to! Mind you online dating also helps you to meet more people as well, so it’s a double-edged sword.

By: Colleen

Colleen — Sat, 15 May 2010 18:25:17 +0000

Hi! I’m visiting from the Lady Blogger’s Tea Party. Dating must have been so much easier before the internet – much less opportunity for anonymous stalking, and therefore much less temptation to become/appear desperate or crazy.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Mon, 10 May 2010 00:27:06 +0000

Hey! This was all a long time ago – and I had already decided waaaaay before that that we were in no way ever going to get back together. He was a narcissist and a liar. The point of the story was more that it is hard to give someone up, and we have a tendency to want to lurk a bit and see what they are doing – not good in the long run though as it holds you back. But human none-the-less.
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By: the house husband

the house husband — Wed, 05 May 2010 09:20:50 +0000

oh man, you guys are beating yourself up, and also setting yourself so hard against getting back together that it would never happen even though it probably wouldn’t. I guess that’s the point, avoid the heartache of being on the fence and just dive off on a side that is most likely the right one. That’s all good unless it ISN’T the right one.
I’m not saying that you should get back with this cheating mofo, but allow yourself to be human.
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