Comments on: Stages of Breaking Up: Stalking http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/05/stages-of-breaking-up-stalking.html The Smart Woman's Breakup Sat, 12 May 2012 17:40:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sarah http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/05/stages-of-breaking-up-stalking.html/comment-page-1#comment-447 Sarah Wed, 19 May 2010 22:15:15 +0000 http://thebreakupbitch.com/?p=894#comment-447 Agreed Charlotte - and I don't think it is as big thing as it can be made out to be in some relationship books. It is hard to suddenly let go, but once we can, we make leaps and bounds in our recovery! Agreed Charlotte – and I don’t think it is as big thing as it can be made out to be in some relationship books. It is hard to suddenly let go, but once we can, we make leaps and bounds in our recovery!

]]> By: Charlotte http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/05/stages-of-breaking-up-stalking.html/comment-page-1#comment-445 Charlotte Wed, 19 May 2010 15:47:42 +0000 http://thebreakupbitch.com/?p=894#comment-445 Guilty as charged! I do have to say though that the moment I stopped caring so much about the ex in order to live my own life, it was as if a great weight had been lifted. He wasn't the one making these grand gestures to stalk me so why should I be the one going through all the trouble? Once this realization washed over me and I started surrounding myself with good friends who radiated positive energy, the breakup became more tolerable and things just seemed to fall back into place again. It's amazing how much we can somtimes stand in the way of our happiness sometimes. Guilty as charged! I do have to say though that the moment I stopped caring so much about the ex in order to live my own life, it was as if a great weight had been lifted. He wasn’t the one making these grand gestures to stalk me so why should I be the one going through all the trouble? Once this realization washed over me and I started surrounding myself with good friends who radiated positive energy, the breakup became more tolerable and things just seemed to fall back into place again.

It’s amazing how much we can somtimes stand in the way of our happiness sometimes.

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