Comments on: True Breakup Story: Dinner with the Ex http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/02/true-breakup-story.html The Smart Woman's Breakup Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:48:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sarah http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/02/true-breakup-story.html/comment-page-1#comment-83 Sarah Sun, 21 Feb 2010 23:16:56 +0000 http://thebreakupbitch.com/?p=691#comment-83 I'm with you Curvy - although I am not quite as cut-throat as you (wish I could be). I remember making the mistake of hanging out with an ex many years after we broke up and he annoyed the hell out of me. All those problems of all those years ago raised their ugly heads. I learned my lesson! Charlotte is a kinder person. If you ever felt like writing your no contact story, it would be great to include it. Going off to check out your site now. I’m with you Curvy – although I am not quite as cut-throat as you (wish I could be). I remember making the mistake of hanging out with an ex many years after we broke up and he annoyed the hell out of me. All those problems of all those years ago raised their ugly heads. I learned my lesson! Charlotte is a kinder person.

If you ever felt like writing your no contact story, it would be great to include it. Going off to check out your site now.

]]> By: Curvy Jones http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/02/true-breakup-story.html/comment-page-1#comment-81 Curvy Jones Sat, 20 Feb 2010 21:46:36 +0000 http://thebreakupbitch.com/?p=691#comment-81 I've been reading mypixieblog, though I hadn't yet commented because I was just feverishly pressing 'next' to read the next entry. I am a champ at the no contact rule. Perhaps it's because my relationships have all been short lived and it's easy for me to nix someone as soon as it's decided that we, together, are not awesome. I delete everything within the first few hours... phone numbers and such. I never, ever call. I never, ever pick up if he calls. I don't read emails, if they come-- it's hard for me to stare failure in the face and every phone call or email or reminder after we break up is just a reminder that I suck, so I'd rather just not look at it. I can't imagine having someone's life wrapped up in mine and having to untangle myself and let go. I think you've handled this extremely well... there is no way I'd be able to a) still do work for my ex and b) have dinner with him. Just too much. Bravo! I’ve been reading mypixieblog, though I hadn’t yet commented because I was just feverishly pressing ‘next’ to read the next entry.

I am a champ at the no contact rule. Perhaps it’s because my relationships have all been short lived and it’s easy for me to nix someone as soon as it’s decided that we, together, are not awesome. I delete everything within the first few hours… phone numbers and such. I never, ever call. I never, ever pick up if he calls. I don’t read emails, if they come– it’s hard for me to stare failure in the face and every phone call or email or reminder after we break up is just a reminder that I suck, so I’d rather just not look at it.

I can’t imagine having someone’s life wrapped up in mine and having to untangle myself and let go. I think you’ve handled this extremely well… there is no way I’d be able to a) still do work for my ex and b) have dinner with him. Just too much. Bravo!

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