Comments on: Going No Contact – My Story http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/02/going-no-contact-my-story.html The Smart Woman's Breakup Sat, 12 May 2012 17:40:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sarah http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/02/going-no-contact-my-story.html/comment-page-1#comment-9165 Sarah Tue, 21 Dec 2010 02:31:15 +0000 http://thebreakupbitch.thesmartwomansbreakup.com/?p=9#comment-9165 Sheila, I didn't see your comment until now - so sorry! That is terrible - and as I had my ex drag out our house settlement until I had used more than the amount he was meant to pay me on lawyers and extra mortgage payments, I can understand your anger. In the end, lawyers will probably end up costing you more than the thousands you want to get back off him. You are wise in staying away from him. If you want to be sure, is there a community law center in your town you can go get some free or lost cost advice. If he is a narcissist, then he will do everything (even if it costs him) to not give you any money. They are such bastards! Sheila,

I didn’t see your comment until now – so sorry! That is terrible – and as I had my ex drag out our house settlement until I had used more than the amount he was meant to pay me on lawyers and extra mortgage payments, I can understand your anger.

In the end, lawyers will probably end up costing you more than the thousands you want to get back off him. You are wise in staying away from him. If you want to be sure, is there a community law center in your town you can go get some free or lost cost advice. If he is a narcissist, then he will do everything (even if it costs him) to not give you any money. They are such bastards!

]]> By: sheila http://thebreakupbitch.com/2010/02/going-no-contact-my-story.html/comment-page-1#comment-7498 sheila Wed, 17 Nov 2010 17:37:29 +0000 http://thebreakupbitch.thesmartwomansbreakup.com/?p=9#comment-7498 My N ex and I lived together 2 years and bought many major items jointly. When his mask came off I moved out and he will not allow me to have any of the items we purchased through a joint account. (His idea of course) He controlled my money for all this time and bought me nothing personally, only items for his property etc. I cannot afford to hire an attorney and he will not pay me for any of it or split anything equally anyway. I have lost thousands of dollars to this man I will never collect. Does anyone know a way to press charges against someone who robs you blind like this? For example it is a crime to swindle the elderly, why not victims of narcissists?I have now gone no contact for over 2 months btw although he continues to call. I don't answer or respond to anything he does. My N ex and I lived together 2 years and bought many major items jointly. When his mask came off I moved out and he will not allow me to have any of the items we purchased through a joint account. (His idea of course) He controlled my money for all this time and bought me nothing personally, only items for his property etc. I cannot afford to hire an attorney and he will not pay me for any of it or split anything equally anyway. I have lost thousands of dollars to this man I will never collect.
Does anyone know a way to press charges against someone who robs you blind like this? For example it is a crime to swindle the elderly, why not victims of narcissists?I have now gone no contact for over 2 months btw although he continues to call. I don’t answer or respond to anything he does.

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