T and I were still together when I wrote this, but things are quickly going downhill. 2 months until we breakup...
4/14 T and I don’t have the same dream: I want a house, I want a baby. I want to relax while having a baby. I want there to be enough money so I can relax. I thought T and I made a commitment to work towards this goal, but really T loves to spend money – taking money for the house and spending it on his excessive life. He is 36 and still spending so much money on clubbing. He has a need – this wanderlust! It’s not like I want huge money, just enough to be comfortable.
Maybe we aren’t soulmates after all. If he could stop comparing himself with everyone. He wants a big house – why? I don’t want a big house, I just want a simple life. I am taking my lunch to work and shop at the fleamarket – so I can save for our future – what is he doing? He compares himself to H&N (good friends of ours), but they have worked hard and compromised for a long time to get where they are now.
So maybe we have different dreams. I think at the moment we don’t have the same dream…and maybe I need to simply say that.
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