Worried Your Partner is Cheating?

September 1, 2010

I know how hard it is to go from thinking you are with the person you are happily in love with – to finding out they betrayed you. On my 38th birthday I saw the first signs my partner was cheating. It took me days to find solid proof of the affair, and within another [...]

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Infidelity Quotes: President Bill Clinton

August 23, 2010
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I want you to listen to me. I’m going to say this again: I did not have sexual relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky.
President Bill Clinton

If you are interested in sad breakup quotes – check out The Breakup Bitch Quote site.

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Getting Your Life in Order: Simplicity Tips

August 19, 2010
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When I am in a new stage of life – like after a breakup – getting my life in order is one of my favorite things to do.  I don’t have to think of anyone else as I rethink my priorities and goals.  I usually do a massive spring-clean in my home – especially around [...]

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The End of a Cheating Relationship – Acceptance

August 17, 2010
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One of the hard things about the sudden ending of a relationship – especially when it involves a third person with an affair – is learning to accept that it has actually happened!  To accept that your partner, who last week seemed so wonderful, has been lying and cheating behind your back is hard to [...]

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The End of A Cheating Relationship – Failure

August 10, 2010
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If you decide to breakup after finding out your partner has been cheating on you, it is easy to slip into feeling like a failure.  I know those feelings crept into my heart, in between the rage I felt at Brian for cheating on me.  Somehow I managed to blame myself for his idiotic behaviour.  [...]

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Charlotte Lusts!

August 9, 2010
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Charlotte over at My Pixie Blog is living what I have been writing about – she is sex on wheels and madly in lust…with men and life!  So wonderful to see such a strong woman turn the corner with her breakup and turn her energy outwards again.  She is just bubbling over with energy.

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Interview: Sheila lusts after an old friend

July 9, 2010

Following up on yesterday’s post on crushes – here is one woman’s story of her massive crush after breaking up with her ex.  I am sure we all have breakup stories like this in our histories – some more embarrassing than others!

Sheila jumped as Hank grabbed her into a hug. She was sitting with [...]

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I’ve Got a Crush on You

July 6, 2010
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We’ve been talking about sex after a breakup, and I think crushes relate to this topic.  Nothing like a really good crush to divert you from wallowing about your ex.  I’ve certainly had them!
Having a crush is a great fantasy for you to escape into when the going is tough.  You may pick the bartender [...]

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Choosing a New Toy Now You’re Single

June 30, 2010
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Taking care of yourself sensually after your breakup could mean you use accessories like vibrators, lube and dildos to help with your quest – and you could enter our MyPleasure giveaway to get yourself a free one!
I know you don’t get to cuddle a sex toy on the sofa and watch DVDs together, but you [...]

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I Miss Being Touched

June 28, 2010
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For me, when going alone, one of the things I miss the most is touch.  I don’t just mean erotic touch (although I miss that!), I mean any physical touch.  When you hug someone your oxytocin levels increase, and with that your feeling of relaxation and connectedness.   I missed that – some weeks I would [...]

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